The Many S-éxual Problems Of Ladies And The Way Out

The media tends to present s-éx as easy, good and spontáneous, implying that we all should always be in the mood for it. If only s-éx were that simple!

The issues of intimácy are of interest and concern to both men and women...

Many knowledgeable doctors now recognise the interrelationship between s-éx, s-éxuality and level of health, vitality and function of their patients’ lives. Many doctors now realise that s-éxual satisfaction is an indicator of overall health and are now including the area of s-éxuality in patients’ medical histories.

Doctors now evaluate patients with a view to not only help them with their presenting complaints, but to also look for opportunities to enhance and improve their s-éx life at the same time. Many patients, both male and female, are, however, uncomfortable with giving the details of this very personal area of their life. They may often just answer ‘Fine,’ ‘OK’ and ‘No problem’ when confronted with the s-éxual part of the medical questionnaire, even when all is not well with their s-éx life.

The overall attitude of secrecy, shame and uncertainty about the role of s-éxuality in overall health can be well summarised by a recent letter received by a physician”

“I am 52 years of age and so is my husband. It is about our s-éx life. It just seems like it’s gone. Is that normal for our age or can we be low on certain vitamins? Is there something we can get to boost our s-éx drive? We always had a good s-éx life and now it is totally gone.”

Participating in s-éxual activities is a good indicator of overall vitality. Loss of interest in s-éx is a very negative sign for a person’s good health and longevity. Blockages in s-éxual energy will often manifest as deterioration in general health or mental state.

As reflected in the e-mail, there is a general myth that s-éxual energy wanes and disappears with age. The e-mailer and her husband are only 52 years old, yet she wonders whether a séx life that is “just gone” might be normal for that age.

Well, it’s not normal for that age, or any other age for that matter. Continuing to have good health involves continuing to have a s-éx drive. Many things can sabotage a normal and enjoyable s-éx life. If you and your partner are experiencing problems with s-éx, you are not alone. Recent studies reveal that nearly 40 to 90 per cent of women of all ages report having s-éxual problems.

Many women experience s-éxual difficulties at some point in their lives. During menopause, as many as half of all women, or even more, may experience s-éxual dysfunction. S-éxual function is no exception. At age 60, for example, one’s s-éxual needs, patterns and performance may not be the same as they were when one was half that age.

What are female s-éxual problems?
There are a variety of s-éxual problems that women experience, either alone or with a partner. The term “s-éx” is not limited to just intercourse, and can also refer to a variety of intimate s-éxual activities such as fondling, self stimulátion or másturbation and oral s-éx.

S-éxual problems are generally defined as any problem that occurs in the course of s-éxual activity, including not being in the mood, trouble becoming arouséd, which usually involves being too dry; difficulty having orgásms, pain during s-éx or pain related to s-éxual activity.

Most women experience these from time to time. It is when they are persistent that they become problematic for the woman and her partner. You should seek help promptly if you are experiencing physical pain.

Defining the problems
S-éxual dysfunction is defined simply as a persistent or recurrent problem during one or more of the stages of having s-éx. It is not considered a s-éxual disorder unless you are distressed about it or if it negatively affects your relationship with your partner. Female S-éxual Dysfunction occurs in women of all ages.

Doctors and s-éx therapists generally divide s-éxual dysfunction in women into four categories. These are:

Low s-éxual desire
In this case, you have poor libido, or lack s-éx drive. This is the most common type of s-éxual disorder among women and it accounts for 87.2 per cent of cases of FSD. It is the persistent or recurrent lack of s-éxual thoughts and/or receptivity to s-éxual activity, which causes personal distress. Low s-éxual desire may result from endocrine failure and may be associated with psychological or emotional disorders. S-éxual aversion disorder is a subcategory of low s-éxual desire.

S-éxual á-rousal disorder
In this situation, your desire for s-éx might be intact, but you’re unable to become á-roused or maintain á-rousal during s-éxual activity. It is persistent or recurrent inability to reach or maintain s-éxual excitement, which causes personal distress. This disorder includes poor v-áginal lubrication, decreased genital sensation and poor v-áginal muscle relaxation. A-rousál disorders are most commonly physiological and can often result from medications, pelvic disorders, as well as neural and peripheral váscular diseases and accounts for 74.7 per cent of FSD.

FSD with o-rgásmic disorder, which accounts for 83.3 per cent of cases of FSD, comes with persistent or recurrent difficulty in achieving orgásm after sufficient s-éxual á-rousal and ongoing stimulátion. This causes personal distress and trauma to nerves. Pelvic surgery and spinal cord injury can be associated with o-rgásmic failure.

There is s-éxual pain disorder in which the v-ágina is painful after being s-éxually stimulatéd or touched. Subcategories include painful intercourse and v-ágina spasm. This may be caused by injuries during operations and physical or psychological trauma involving the pélvis. This accounts for 71.7 per cent of FSD.

Governor Fashola's father buried [PHOTOS]

The remains of Alhaji Ademola Fashola, the father of Lagos state governor, Raji Fashola, who died in the early hours of yesterday morning, was laid to rest this afternoon at the Vaults and Gardens Cemetery, Ikoyi, Lagos. May his soul rest in peace, Ase..

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How student, MTN staff were killed by vigilante

Tragedy struck in Abeokuta, yesterday,  when  men of the Vigilante Service of Ogun State, VSO, reportedly  shot dead  a student of Moshood Abiola Polytechnic, Abeokuta, Moruf Raji, 29, and a staff of a telecommunication company, MTN Nigeria,  Akeem Usman, 32, while chasing suspected robbers.

The  incident occurred at Adigbe, at about 1.00 a.m  when  a team  of the vigilance service allegedly ordered residents of 18A, Sorinola Avenue, Oriyanrin, to open their gate for them to arrest  suspected robbers believed to be hiding in the building. An eye witness told Vanguard that some of the  residents  who were mostly students refused to open  the gate, suspecting the vigilante men to be  robbers  trying to play smart.

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The witness further explained that  Moruf and Akeem  went out from their rooms and opened the gate for them but one of the men of VSO  opened fire on the two men killing them instantly. Vanguard gathered that men of the VSO  still went ahead to force their way into the compound after shooting the two men and ransacked the rooms, while the victims were bleeding profusely. It was further gathered that, the vigilantes used their patrol vehicle to rush  the victims to the Federal Medical Centre, Idi-Aba Abeokuta where they died following excessive loss of blood.

Vanguard  learnt that, Moroof was  a Business Administration student of MAPOLY who was on one-year Industrial attachment and Akeem who was a staff of  MTN that go married seven months ago. According to findings, Akeem worked in  Lagos  but came to Abeokuta to attend  a religious  programme scheduled for 10.00am on Sunday. He was said to have resolved to sleep with a family-friend because of the proximity of the house to the venue of the programme. His driver, Abayomi Awoyajo was also said to have sustained injury  after being battered  by the  members of vigilance during the raid.

Narrating the incident  Abayomi said  they were all inside when at about 1.00am ,the vigilante men  came asking  them  to open the door. “We all thought they were armed robbers, we started running helter-skelter, some of us hid in the wardrobe, while some hid under the chairs,” he said. The 30 year old driver, also said  the two victims in pool of their  blood crawled back into the house,crying loud, while the vigilantes  forced their way into the house to  continue dealing with all of them in a brutal matter.

“They even asked for brother Akeem’s  car key which I gave to them, but, could not be taken out because of the security device installed in it, we were later rushed to the hospital” he explained.

However, as  at the time of  filing this report, all the  members of the vigilante service that were involved in the act  have been arrested by the police from Adigbe station.

The  case  was said to have been transferred  to Eleweran Police Headquarters, Abeokuta but the Police Public Relations Officer in the State, Muyiwa Adejobi could not be reached as at the time of filing this report

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Jungle Justice: Kidnapper Set Ablaze By Angry Mob

A middle-aged man suspected to be a kidnapper but who feigned insanity, was on Sunday set ablaze by a mob at Odota area of Ilorin, Kwara State.

The suspect was said to have been caught while trying to kidnap a 9-year old child, claimed to be a lorry conductor.

The victim who identified himself as Raimi Wasiu, was quoted as saying he hailed from Osogbo, Osun State capital and also confessed to be a kidnapper alongside seven others.

He added that they worked for a cleric resident around Hajj camp, Ilorin and that hardship led him into the act.

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Witnesses said residents of the area have long been suspicious of the man’s activities around Odota bridge, where he allegedly lived in an abandoned building by the roadside.

According to report, the suspect was attacked and beaten by the mob at the abandoned building he resides in, after he beat up a resident who caught him.

One of the witnesses who spoke on condition of anonymity, said the victim was chased from the building towards Eyenkorin and dispossessed of many charms, rings and amulets by his captors.

It was while he was confessing that the crowd was said to have descended on him with sticks, stones and other dangerous objects before setting him ablaze.

According to the witness, the police was called to the scene but before their arrival, the suspect had already been set ablaze but they took his corpse away.

When contacted, the spokesman of the state police command, Olufemi Fabode (DSP) confirmed the incident. 

My Husband was set up: Wife Of Hotel Owner In Custody For Human Head Saga

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Without even waiting for investigation of the controversial matter to begin, her husband's hotel was on Friday demolished on the orders of the state governor, Peter Obi.

She insisted that her husband, Bonaventure Mokwe, is being set up...

Mr Bonaventure was arrested along with 10 other people in connection with the recovery of the two human heads in his hotel.

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Nkiru said the life of her husband is in danger and urged the President and the Senate President to come to their rescue before it would be too late. Nkiru, who is a lawyer, spoke to reporters in Onitsha on Saturday.

 

She said the whole story was a set up, adding that her husband’s enemies were in a hurry to destroy him and his business.

“My husband is being detained in a very dehumanising condition at SARS, Awkuzu, and the police have denied him access to his lawyer and relations. My husband’s hotel at No 8, Old Market Road, Onitsha which he inherited from his father, Chief G.C Mokwe, has been demolished,” she said.

She also added that Governor Peter Obi has threatened to demolish her husband's plaza at Ose-Okwodu and other properties belonging to him and his family and confiscate all his assets.

She wondered why the police in Anambra did not act on the matter until Inspector General’s office send men to the hotel based on a petition written on July 2, 2013.

She claimed that the human heads might have been planted by people who were bent on nailing her husband and draw attention from the main issues in contention.

She said her husband dealt in lands and real estate and there were lots of conflicts over ownership of lands between him and some persons which led to the shooting of her husband on March 9, 2009.

She said about four of the disputes are pending in court and wondered why the masterminds of her husband wrote a petition to the Inspector General of Police alleging that her husband stored human heads and arms in his hotel.

She further alleged that the masterminds of her husband’s arrest got approval of their petition and smuggled in two rusty objects which the police claimed were human skulls and arms into one of the commercial rooms in the hotel on or before the arrival of the police.

She is demanding that her husband be charged to court or granted bail

Group views Ohaneze’s claims on Lagos as insult on Yoruba

A socio cultural group, Oodua Solidarity Forum, has condemned the Ohaneze claim  published on Tuesday August 6, 2013, in the Daily Sun as not only insult to the Yoruba, but also an affront just as it decry the attacks, threaths on Femi Fani-Kayode and  his failmy.

The group in a satement signed by the group’s National Coordinator, Olajide Julius and made available to Vanguard viewed the  Ohaneze claim  that  “The Igbo are key stakeholders in the affairs of the state (Lagos). We constitute over 46% of the population of the state…It is the Igbo that make Lagos what it is and without them Lagos will go to sleep. The Igbo in Lagos have the capacity to defend themselves…”. published on Tuesday August 6, 2013, in the Daily Sun as not only insult to the Yoruba, but also an affront.

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The statement in parts read thus

We have watched the systemic and vitriolic attacks on former Minister of Aviation, Chief Femi Fani-Kayode, over his article, entitled ‘The bitter truth about the Igbo’ which unfortunately has been condemned by some groups of people.

And despite his explanations that his comments have been greatly been misunderstood, and that his intentions were not to ridicule or malign the Igbo, the attacks have continued. Some Igbo groups have not stopped at attacking him alone, but have gone ahead to issue threats against his wife and children.

While many may see the attack as merely an attack on Fani-kayode, but those with discerning eyes will read between the lines and see that the attack is indeed an attack on the Yoruba race.

You will recall that Fani-Kayode only responded to a national issue and comments made by some Igbos concerning the Yoruba race. It is funny how these people who have found it a game to attack Chief Fani-Kayode

remained silent without uttering a single word when an Igbo man and leader, former Abia State governor, Orji Uzor Kalu, found it convenient to describe Lagos as ‘no man’s land’ and that 55% of the revenue generated in the state belong to the Igbos.

It should also be noted that Fani-Kayode made those comments as his personal opinion as a Nigerian. We ask, what was he expected to do when his father’s land is being disparaged by an Igbo man?

It is not only funny, but also ridiculous that Orji Kalu would refer to Lagos as a no man’s land. Perhaps he has forgotten so soon that shortly after the June 12 crisis broke out, and Lagos was on fire as a result of the activities of the military junta. No sooner had the crisis started that Kalu’s Igbo brothers packed their loads and headed back to their ‘homes’. It took the Yoruba, the ‘owners’ of Lagos to stand and fight to protect their land.

It is also instructive to remind them that the Yoruba account for between 20% and 30% of buildings and businesses in Abuja. But we had never for one day lose sight of the fact that Abuja belongs to the Gwari people, though it is the federal capital. The reason is very simple, the Yoruba is not in any way covetous, and so will never lay claim to whatever is not his.

There is no gain repeating the fact the average Yoruba is very accommodating. It is for this simple reason that you will find an Igbo, Hausa or even a non-Nigerian with properties spread across Yoruba land without any problem.

It is against this background that we view the comments credited to the Ohaneze in the Daily Sun publication of Tuesday August 6, 2013, as not only insult to the Yoruba, but also an affront. The comments reads: “The Igbo are key stakeholders in the affairs of the state (Lagos). We constitute over 46% of the population of the state…It is the Igbo that make Lagos what it is and without them Lagos will go to sleep. The Igbo in Lagos have the capacity

to defend themselves…”

You will agree with us that this reckless statement is a subtle claim by the Igbo that they own Lagos, with a veiled threat to destroy it if they don’t have their way. Despite the open threat, no Yoruba man has picked the gun to attack the Ohaneze.

Perhaps we should ask our brothers one simple question. How many Yoruba have C-of-Os in Enugu, Aba or Onitsha? It is not because they not want to have it or because they are not as industrious as their Igbo counterpart.